When a puppy becomes overwhelming, it is critical to implement puppy-proofed, safe zones (crates, pens, gates) for mandatory downtime and to take breaks for your own mental health. The "puppy blues" are common; manage them by sticking to a strict routine, utilizing enrichment toys (frozen Kongs), seeking help from others, and remembering that this phase is temporary.

Is it normal to get overwhelmed with a puppy?

The truth is, no matter how much research you do ahead of time or how prepared you feel, bringing home a dog is usually stressful and takes time to get used to. Experiencing feelings of anxiety, fear, exhaustion, and even regret is completely normal.

What to do if you can't cope with your puppy?

You can get help from a professional dog behaviourist if you are experiencing behavioural problems with your dog. If you need to give up your dog, using a reputable rehoming organisation is the best way to make sure your dog is matched to the right home.

How to handle an overstimulated puppy?

To calm an overstimulated dog: increase physical exercise, provide mental stimulation, create a calm environment, establish a consistent routine, and use techniques like massage, aromatherapy, or CBD. Veterinary or behavior experts: help may be needed if overstimulation causes severe signs.

What is the hardest month with a puppy?

The "worst" month of puppyhood varies, but common tough stages include 3-4 months (intense biting/teething, potty training issues, sleep disruption) and the 6-12 month adolescence period (rebelliousness, boundary testing, increased energy/independence, "terrible teens"), with the biting often peaking around 13 weeks. While teething (4-6 months) brings destructive chewing, adolescence brings behavioral challenges as hormones kick in, leading to disobedience and independence.
 

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What to do if I regret getting a puppy?

If you're really feeling like getting a puppy was a mistake, reach out to a veterinarian, trainer, or even a counselor to talk through your feelings. Sometimes, just speaking to an animal health professional can be validating and eye-opening, letting new puppy owners know that things will get better.

What is the 10 minute rule for puppies?

The "10-minute rule for puppies" usually refers to either a potty training method (10 mins outside, 10 feet space, 10 mins supervision, repeat if needed) or a training/exercise guideline (short, focused 10-minute sessions to prevent overload, or 10 mins of exercise per month of age). It emphasizes consistency, short bursts of activity to match a puppy's limited attention and bladder control, and positive reinforcement for success, preventing frustration for both pup and owner.

What is the 7 7 7 rule for puppies?

The "777 Puppy Rule" (or Rule of Seven) is a guideline for early puppy socialization, recommending exposure to 7 different people, 7 different locations, 7 different surfaces, 7 different types of toys, 7 different challenges, 7 different food containers, and 7 short car rides (or similar experiences) by around 7 to 12 weeks old to build confidence and prevent fear, with each positive experience paired with treats and praise to create a well-adjusted adult dog.
 

How to calm an overly hyper puppy?

If their hyperactivity isn't cutting into your day, let their personalities flourish.

1. Daily Physical Exercise. Giving your dog daily exercise is guaranteed to calm them down. ...
2. Give Them a Hobby. ...
3. Calming Treats. ...
4. Crate Train. ...
5. Routine and Flow. ...
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7. A Healthy Diet. ...
8. Your Energy.

Is it normal to not want your puppy anymore?

It is NORMAL to have days when you want to give up and feel like you just don't enjoy your dog anymore. So many of us have been there before. Especially with puppies. Puppy blues are a real thing for some people.

Is it okay if I leave my dog home alone for 8 hours and 5 days a week?

Typically, a puppy can be left alone for an hour for every month of age. So, a two-month-old puppy might be okay for about two hours alone. As dogs mature into adulthood, they can usually stay alone for about 4-6 hours, though this can stretch longer for some dogs, especially if they've been gradually accustomed to it.

Is it normal to lose patience with a puppy?

Remember that it's completely normal to struggle to bond with your puppy sometimes, and even regret getting a puppy at all.

What is the 3 3 3 rule for anxiety?

The 3-3-3 rule for anxiety is a grounding technique that helps manage panic and overwhelming feelings by engaging your senses: name three things you see, identify three sounds you hear, and move three parts of your body, bringing focus to the present moment to interrupt racing thoughts and calm your nervous system. It's a simple, accessible mindfulness tool to regain control during acute anxiety.
 

What are the signs of a stressed puppy?

An anxious or stressed dog might display some of the following behaviours whilst they are exposed to the stressor or unsure of a situation:

• Lower or tuck their tail.
• Narrow or widen their eyes.
• Pin their ears back.
• Shake.
• Pant.
• Lick their lips.
• Yawn.
• Pace back and forth.

What is the 10 10 10 rule for puppies?

The {Link: 10-10-10 rule for puppies is a potty training guideline: take your puppy out for 10 minutes, to a spot with about 10 feet of space, and supervise them for 10 minutes (or until they go), using praise and treats when they finish; if they don't go, return to a crate for 10-20 minutes and repeat. This method emphasizes consistency, frequent outings (especially after waking, eating, playing), and positive reinforcement to build a solid house-training routine.

Can you oversocialise your puppy?

It is very difficult to over-stimulate a two- to four-month-old socialized puppy and there is simply no need to slow things down. However, socializing a socialized puppy is very different from rehabilitating an insufficiently socialized (shy or fearful) puppy or dog.

Is 2 walks a day enough for a puppy?

You'll know your dog best, and the amount of exercise a dog can manage will vary between breeds and dogs, but a good rule of thumb is a ratio of five minutes of formal exercise per month of age (up to twice a day) until the puppy is fully grown i.e., 15 minutes (up to twice a day) when three months old, 20 minutes when ...

Can I get a puppy if I work 10 hours a day?

Yes, but everyday you've got to commit you're up before that job exercising that dog. Also consider getting a low energy breed/companion breed. You may also need to accept even with training and buying the correct dog for you you may need a dog walker or check in person mid day anyway.

Is 8pm too early for a puppy to go to bed?

7:30/8pm: CRATE BEDTIME: Puppies always wind down here. Don't try to push the limits here, put them in their crate between 7:30-8:30pm. If you wait too long, you'll have a very loud, sad puppy in the crate.

Why am I so sad after getting a puppy?

Puppy blues refers to the feelings of regret, depression, overwhelm and potential guilt that new puppy owners can experience after getting a puppy. A Many Pets survey undertaken in 2023, revealed that the puppy blues are a lot more common than you might think.

How long does it take for a puppy to settle in a new home?

The initial adjustment period is the first week of bringing a new puppy or dog. At this time, your dog will be very nervous and cautious. Don't force them to bond with you; give them a few more weeks to adjust.

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